200704181803我終於了解....

 

我終於了解-
你無法強迫別人愛你。
你所能做的,是使自己成為可愛的人。
此外,則不是你所能決定的。

I've learned -
that you cannot make someone love you.
All you can do is be someone who can be loved.
The rest is up to them.
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我終於了解-
不論我如何付出關懷,
有些人就是無動於衷。

I've learned -
that no matter how much I care,
some people just don't care back.
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我終於了解-
建立起信任,需費時多年,
但只需幾秒就能摧毀它。

I've learned -
that it takes years to build up trust,
and only seconds to destroy it.
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我終於了解-
重要的不是你一生中擁有了什麼東西,
而是你一生中擁有了什麼人。

I've learned -
that it's not what you have in your life
but who you have in your life that counts.
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我終於了解-
你可以藉由魅力達到目的,
但只能維持15分鐘。
此後,你最好要有些真材實料。

I've learned -
that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes.
After that, you'd better know something.
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我終於了解-
你不應該拿自己和別人的最佳表現相比,
而應該和自己的最佳表現相比。

I've learned -
that you shouldn't compare
yourself to the best others can do
but to the best you can do.
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我終於了解-
重要的不是發生在人們身上的事,
而是他們對那事的反應。

I've learned -
that it's not what happens to people
that's important. It's what they do about it.
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我終於了解-
你在瞬間所做的事,
可以叫你心痛一輩子。

I've learned -
that you can do something in an instant
that will give you heartache for life.
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我終於了解-
不論你切得多薄,
事情總是具有兩面。

I've learned -
that no matter how thin you slice it,
there are always two sides.
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我終於了解-
需要經歷很長的時日,
才能使我成為我所欲成為的人。

I've learned -
that it's taking me a long time
to become the person I want to be.
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我終於了解-
做出反應遠比思考來得容易。

I've learned -
that it's a lot easier
to react than it is to think.
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我終於了解-
每次離開所愛的人時,
你總要說親愛的話,
因那也許你最後一次見他們的面。

I've learned -
that you should always leave
loved ones with loving words.
It may be the last time you see them.
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我終於了解-
你可以繼續走下去
遠超過你所以為的極限。

I've learned -
that you can keep going
long after you think you can't.
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我終於了解-
我們須為自己所做的事負責,
不論自己感覺如何。

I've learned -
that we are responsible for what we do,
no matter how we feel.
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我終於了解-
你若不控制你的態度,
就是讓你的態度控制了你。

I've learned -
that either you control your attitude
or it controls you.
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我終於了解-
不論起初的關係如何熱絡,
熱情總會退卻,
最好有其他的東西可以取代它。

I've learned -
that regardless of how hot and steamy
a relationship is at first,
the passion fades and there had better be
something else to take its place.
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我終於了解-
英雄就是那些
在須要做的時刻,
做應該做的事,
而不計後果如何的人。

I've learned -
that heroes are the people
who do what has to be done
when it needs to be done,
regardless of the consequences.
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我終於了解-
學習寬恕,需要操練。

I've learned -
that learning to forgive takes practice.
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我終於了解-
的確有些人非常愛你,
只是他們不知如何表達。

I've learned -
that there are people who love you dearly,
but just don't know how to show it.
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我終於了解-
金錢是一種很差勁的計分方式。

I've learned -
that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
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我終於了解-
我與最好的朋友
可以做任何事,
或不做任何事,
而一樣享受了最棒的時光。

I've learned -
that my best friend and I can do anything
or nothing and have the best time.
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我終於了解-
有時你以為會在你失意時踹你一腳的人,
其實卻正是那個將幫助你重新站起來的人。

I've learned -
that sometimes the people you expect
to kick you when you're down
will be the ones to help you get back up.
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我終於了解-
有時候我憤怒,
因我有權利憤怒。
但這並不表示
我有權利殘忍。

I've learned -
that sometimes when I'm angry
I have the right to be angry,
but that doesn't give me
the right to be cruel.
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我終於了解-
真實的友誼會持續增長,
即或遠隔千里。
真實的愛亦然。

I've learned -
that true friendship continues to grow,
even over the longest distance.
Same goes for true love.
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我終於了解-
有些人不照著你所期望的方式來愛你,
並不表示他們沒有盡他們的一切來愛你。

I've learned -
that just because someone doesn't love you
the way you want them to doesn't mean
they don't love you with all they have.
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我終於了解-
所謂成熟,比較和你擁有何種經歷,
以及你從其中學到何事有關,
而比較和你究竟歡度了多少個生日無關。

I've learned -
that maturity has more to do with
what types of experiences you've had
and what you've learned from them
and less to do with how many
birthdays you've celebrated.
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我終於了解-
你絕不可以對一個孩子說,
他的夢想是不可能的,或是奇怪的。
再沒有什麼比此更羞辱人的。
而且,如果他們相信了你,
更將是何等的悲劇呢!

I've learned -
that you should never tell a child
their dreams are unlikely or outlandish.
Few things are more humiliating, and
what a tragedy it would be
if they believed it.
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我終於了解-
你的家人不會永遠幫著你。
也許似乎可笑,
但那些與你無關的人
卻會關懷你,愛你,教你重新信任人。
家庭不是一種肉身的關係。

I've learned -
that your family won't always
be there for you. It may seem funny,
but people you aren't related to
can take care of you and love you
and teach you to trust people again.
Families aren't biological.
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我終於了解-
不論一個朋友多好,
總有一些時候他還是會傷到你,
而你總得為此原諒他。

I've learned -
that no matter how good a friend is,
they're going to hurt you
every once in a while
and you must forgive them for that.
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我終於了解-
被人原諒不一定足夠,
有時你也得學習原諒自己。

I've learned -
that it isn't always enough
to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes you have to learn
to forgive yourself.
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我終於了解-
不論你的心破碎到什麼程度,
世界也不會因你的悲傷而停止運轉。

I've learned -
that no matter how bad
your heart is broken
the world doesn't stop for your grief.
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我終於了解-
儘管我們的背景和環境會影響我們的本質,
但我們都須為我們爾後的改變負責。

I've learned -
that our background and circumstances
may have influenced who we are,
but we are responsible for who we become.
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我終於了解-
有時當我的朋友間起了衝突,
儘管我不情願,
我還是被迫需選擇站在其中一方。

I've learned -
that sometimes when my friends fight,
I'm forced to choose sides
even when I don't want to.
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我終於了解-
兩個人爭吵,並不表示他們不愛對方。
兩個人不爭吵,也不表示他們愛對方。

I've learned -
that just because two people argue,
it doesn't mean they don't love each other
And just because they don't argue,
it doesn't mean they do.
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我終於了解-
有時你必須把焦點放在個人,
而非他們的行為上。

I've learned -
that sometimes you have to put
the individual ahead of their actions.
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我終於了解-
我們並不需要改換朋友-
如果我們明白朋友也會改變的話。

I've learned -
that we don't have to change friends
if we understand that friends change.
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我終於了解-
你不應那麼熱切地去發掘一個秘密,
因它可能會永遠改變你的一生。

I've learned -
that you shouldn't be so
eager to find out a secret.
It could change your life forever.
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我終於了解-
兩個人可以看著同一件事,
卻見到完全不同的東西。

I've learned -
that two people can look
at the exact same thing
and see something totally different.
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我終於了解-
無論你如何嘗試保護你的孩子,
他們終究還是會受傷,
而你也會在此過程中受傷。

I've learned -
that no matter how you try to protect
your children, they will eventually get hurt
and you will hurt in the process.
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我終於了解-
墜入情網和持續相愛,
都有很多方法。

I've learned -
that there are many ways of falling
and staying in love.
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心得:

我終於了解-

有很多事我還不瞭解。

I've learned -

that there are many things I havn't learned.(文法有誤的地方請糾正)

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